How to get the best dating results online!

As with other social activities, what you get out of online dating depends very much on what you put in. Women in particular tend to be overwhelmed at times by the number of responses they get from men who often respond in high numbers to well written essay questions.

A profile with a good photo will always get more results than a profile without a photo. In fact, our numbers have shown that a profile with a photo will be viewed 10 times more than a profile without a photo in the first 90 days. If you're serious about meeting people online, take the time to get quality photos, and spend some time on your profile, too. If you contact someone whose photo and profile appeal to you, the likelihood of a response depends very much on how well you "sell" yourself. Don't just say "Hi" and leave it at that, or your email will probably be ignored. Introduce yourself, say what it is about the person that appealed to you, and suggest ways that the two of you might be compatible.

Men are probably the worst offenders because, well, they're basically lazy. However, the man who that takes the time to actually read a woman's profile and write an intelligent message, referring to some of the specific items in her essays will usually score much higher than the guy who writes "Hi, my name is Bill, I like your photo, please write back".

So, if you take the time to write a nice essay for your profile and post a recent photo - you'll be amazed at how fast you'll meet people online.

Now, go give it a try and write us back and let us know if this article helpful.